How to Introduce Sex Toys in a Relationship
Did you know that only 27% of the women we asked orgasm with intercourse alone? Out of these women 92% said they orgasm during masturbation with a vibrator. It seems obvious to me, bring toys into your bedroom, and let your partner be a part of the fun…..so please tell me “how to Introduce Sex Toys in a Relationship”
Try using these 7 simple ways to introduce sex toys without making him feel inadequate or uncomfortable.
Do your research
It’s human nature to be uncomfortable with the unknown, so start out by doing a bit of research to find out what kinds of toys are out there. It’s easy to find lots of information on the internet, but it can also be a bit overwhelming. Try reading blogs and product reviews from experienced sex toy experts. If you’re comfortable, try going into your local store; it’s great if you can see and touch the toys. If you’re not comfortable in a store, try watching YouTube videos. You’ll not only find product reviews but informative how too videos as well.
When to talk about it
Introduce the subject gently at first and see what kind of response you get. Texting can be easier then face to face for some. Tell your partner you’ve read an article (like this one) or saw something on tv that intrigued you; include facts. Get them excited about the idea of trying something new with you. Focus on all the good stuff about your sex life, and how this will only enhance it.
Although most of us don’t go to work and tell our co-workers about the great sex we had last night, most of us are doing it. The same goes for sex toys, it’s not always an easy topic to bring up with friends but it’s way more common then you might think. In fact, the odds are that your partner has either tried sex toys in the past or thought about them. They’re probably just as nervous to introduce the subject as you!
Get excited together as you browse to see what interests you both. Go to your local sex toy boutique or shop from home. Collections are a great option as you can try a few different toys often at a reduced price. Read the product description and customer reviews so you have a full understanding of what to expect. Shop reputable retailers that can answer all your questions, and even advise you based on your needs.
Toys for two
While all sex toys can be used with a partner, some are designed specifically to be used with one. They can be used during for-play or even intercourse. These are great toys to start off with, as both partners benefit from the vibrations.
Control their pleasure
When you introduce sex toys into a relationship, it can be fun to let your partner be in control of your pleasure. Give them the toy and allow them to pleasure you. Talk about what feels good, what doesn’t, and how you like it. Sex toys are so advanced now that your partner can control certain toys from across the room, or by any smart phone anywhere in the world!
Choose Healthy Sex Toys
Not all sex toys are safe to insert in your body. Some contain unhealthy materials that lead to cancer among other things. It’s important that you read the labels, and shop from reputable stores. Find out how to spot body-safe sex toys here.